I dated this guy in college for quite a while. I can't recall why we even broke up. Over the last few years, we connected on LinkedIn, but we never emailed each other. Months ago, one of us emailed - I honestly don't remember who. We made plans to get coffee, but neither of us followed trough. We went a few months again and then he emailed me. We made plans to grab lunch. Two weeks ago yesterday, we were emailing and decided to have a spontaneous dinner. First time we'd seen each other in 15 years. I had a blast. Lots of laughs. The following week, we made plans for lunch. He ended up canceling because of work. Yesterday, we made plans to hang out tonight. To me it was just a chance to get together with an old friend and have some much needed laughs.
This morning I woke up to a missed unknown number on my phone. No biggie. It happens. I woke up later and had a missed call from an Ohio number and a voice mail. Voice mail says:
"Hi, this is Cassie. I'm @&$'s girlfriend. We have a three month old daughter. Not sure if you knew this or not, but you just broke up a family."
I decided to text her and tell her I had no idea and there was nothing going on between him and I. I also texted him. He was very nonchalant about it. Just said to ignore her and he was sorry. She texted me back and said she had found naked pictures on his phone of another girl and emails from another girl he used to work with. She also said that her and her dad had just left his house from getting her things. Him and I texted back and forth a few times. Well, come to find out (and she also told me this) the daughter is not biologically his, but he had been around since she was born.
WHAT THE FUCK is all I can say. Now, he's not responding to my text messages. Clearly, they were dating when him and I had dinner. Of course I didn't know this otherwise I would have never had dinner with his ass or made plans for today. Even if I thought there might be something between us (which I don't know), I sure as shit wouldn't pursue it now. Dude. You're 35 years old and you're playing games with a woman who you portray yourself as "dad" to her daughter. Who the fuck does that?
Now that he's not responding to my text messages, his ass better not email me at work. Doubt he'd ever read this, but grow up dude.
I think it's safe to say that anyone I knew years ago need to stay in my past. I have connected with several people from my past and they all end up being giant assholes. No more. I'm done. The past is the past for a reason.
Again, I can't make this shit up.
Update... 11/5/15
I ended up emailing him on Monday and he responded right away. We emailed a few times and that was it. THEN, Monday night, I get another text from this crazy chick. She said that the naked photos on his phone are, in fact, me, and that I am a homewrecker. First of all, I know for a fact, those naked photos on his phone are not me because I haven't taken any naked photos. I took a screen shot of her text message and sent it to him. He just said to block her number and ignore her. I did text her back and said "Um, I'm not sure you're talking to, but I don't take naked photos and text them out. Stop texting me and move on." She never responded.
Yesterday, I got on LinkedIn and it showed two girls had viewed my profile. Two girls who, by the way, were my connections on LinkedIn. I don't filter out the requests on LinkedIn because it's just a business site. I'm not posting my personal life on there. I just always accept the requests. Well, both of these chicks worked at his old job. AND, the one chick was named Casey. I thought she said Cassie on my voice mail. I took her name and looked her up on Facebook. Sure enough, she's got a three month old daughter. I blocked her on LinkedIn, Facebook, my phone, and also her little friend. I texted him and told him what I found and that he needed to tell her to leave me alone -- that she had taken it above and beyond at this point. Do you think this mo fo has yet to text me back? Nope. He acts like I'm bothering him. As if he's being inconvenienced by the drama. Uh, you brought me into your drama, douche bag. You could at least have the common courtesy to text me back and at least say sorry. Whatever friendship he thought was going to be salvaged is dead. I can't be friends with someone who can't seem to find their balls and attempt to fix the issue that he had part in.
Update... 11/5/15
I ended up emailing him on Monday and he responded right away. We emailed a few times and that was it. THEN, Monday night, I get another text from this crazy chick. She said that the naked photos on his phone are, in fact, me, and that I am a homewrecker. First of all, I know for a fact, those naked photos on his phone are not me because I haven't taken any naked photos. I took a screen shot of her text message and sent it to him. He just said to block her number and ignore her. I did text her back and said "Um, I'm not sure you're talking to, but I don't take naked photos and text them out. Stop texting me and move on." She never responded.
Yesterday, I got on LinkedIn and it showed two girls had viewed my profile. Two girls who, by the way, were my connections on LinkedIn. I don't filter out the requests on LinkedIn because it's just a business site. I'm not posting my personal life on there. I just always accept the requests. Well, both of these chicks worked at his old job. AND, the one chick was named Casey. I thought she said Cassie on my voice mail. I took her name and looked her up on Facebook. Sure enough, she's got a three month old daughter. I blocked her on LinkedIn, Facebook, my phone, and also her little friend. I texted him and told him what I found and that he needed to tell her to leave me alone -- that she had taken it above and beyond at this point. Do you think this mo fo has yet to text me back? Nope. He acts like I'm bothering him. As if he's being inconvenienced by the drama. Uh, you brought me into your drama, douche bag. You could at least have the common courtesy to text me back and at least say sorry. Whatever friendship he thought was going to be salvaged is dead. I can't be friends with someone who can't seem to find their balls and attempt to fix the issue that he had part in.
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